Psychic Q & A with MarVeena Episode #58 How to cope with a death in the family
Each week I take a question off my Facebook Page to answer here in this column.
Today
Shelia A writes: My father is dying from cancer. How can I help him through the dying process without losing it my self?
From MarVeena:
It is a blessing to help another soul move on from this plane to the next.
A very private and personal thing. Every death is unique as every birth is.
All deaths are attended by angelic spirits who know exactly what to do and when to do it.
Your dad also will intuitively know how to move on. Don’t feel like it is all up to you to “do something”.
You can offer prayers for extra light and love to bless him and help him digest this experience.
I think it is important to wait on the grieving part as much as possible and send them messages to move on into the light when they are ready.
It is not a good idea to beg them to stay!!!! That puts stress on the soul and that is the last thing they need to worry about.
Be assured you will see your loved one on the other side some day. You can let them know that too.
Let them know you appreciate being a part of their journey.
Do your forgiveness work if you need to.
It is good to have some nice music that is comforting to them in the back ground, I was taught to sing their death song. Since most of us don’t have that, sing a song that feels right as their death song. A song that says is all for them. Hum if nothing else.
You can light some candles and burn some nice incense if it feels right. Candles and the fire element send out a signal that you are aligned with the light, it invites more of the same into the room to be a blessing for your dad.
Sometimes it takes a while for the soul to pull out of the physical shell. Your dad might seem to be talking to spirits that are not there.
Not to worry, that is natural. I think it is good to give him 3 full days after he passes to do a service and then think about your own grief process.
But if you can hold that space while he is in transition, that can be a big help. We don’t need distractions from the family while we are in the middle of the death transition. We need to be able to focus on merging with the light.
That is one reason I encourage you to meditate with the light all the time, so when your death journey is in process you will be familiar with the light and can make the most of this powerful experience.
Trust your instincts to know what to do for him, as long as you have the intention to be a blessing to him., you will get the nudges from spirit as to “how”.
I am sending you a big hug!!!
Bright Blessings
MarVeena Meek
(c) Aug 2015
Psychic Q & A with MarVeena Episode #25
Every week I answer a question from my Facebook page about things my friends are going through. If you have a questions you can leave it here or go to Facebook at Psychic Medium MarVeena
This week CoCo wrote:
Hi MarVeena, Hope all is well. I have a question. On the property we own, there are dogs that died still chained to trees. My daughter and I see them. My daughter is so distraught. We want to help them. How? Can we take a string out there, or scissors and cut the invisible line to the tree, or do we need to just basically cross them over? Please let me know how to do this. They are starving and suffering even in spirit. Sincerely, Coco
From MarVeena:
It really breaks my heart to read this. I feel there are always some hidden lessons for us when we get into these situations.
Follow your gut instinct. I would ask the angels and devas on the land to bless their souls with love and healing.
Do your best to communicate to them that you love and appreciate the journey they made here. Just let your heart talk. Tell them that their suffering was not in vain. You could symbolically cut the chains they are keeping them there.
I would do something on the property that you can dedicate to them. Maybe adopt some pound puppies, make a dog park there on the land. Let it go to the dogs in a beauty way.
There are some opportunities for you and your daughter to step out of your comfort zone and communicate to the spirit dogs.
You could ask them if they have a name, maybe offer to give them one. Ask them if they feel complete here. Is there something you could do to help them feel more at peace or complete with their journey. There are several ways you could approach this situation. You might get some ideas from them or feel a direction to take that would make them more peaceful. You might not get anything. In that case, let you gut instinct tell you what to do and how to do it.
You could make a plan to create a new template for the land. It took a lot of pain and suffering for those dogs to leave a part of them self there. The land was imprinted with their horrible situation.
I would create a plan to turn this all around. It could be an act of beauty for you and your daughter. Sort of like what they did at the world trade center. They took a space where a lot of people died a hard death. Now they created a beautiful memorial area on the same land. You could make it a fun safe place for dogs. Use your imagination. Below is a prayer you can use to help a spirit over. This is good for a person or animal. Don’t limit yourself to them, follow your heart and intuition. As long as it comes through the heart from a place of love it will be received that way. I start with The Lords Prayer. I feel very strongly that the language is important, I use a slightly different version.
Our Father, who art in heaven, Hallow it be thy name. Thy Kingdom come, Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day, our daily bread and forgive us our tresspasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. For thine is the Kingdom and the power and the glory for ever and ever.
There are four angels standing at this bed, two at the feet and two at the head. Raphael, Michael, Gabriel and Uriel thank you for escorting these lost souls back into the light from which they are created.
Then I follow with this Blessing: Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for this spirit now,
and at the hour of their victory.
These are a few prayers, I am sure there are more that would e good for the situation.
Bright Blessings
MarVeena
(c) Aug 4, 2014