Pain That Won’t Go Away!
When a special soul passes away, it can rip our heart wide open.
One thing that really causes a lot of suffering is when we forget that each one of us is a soul that comes to this earth dimension for different reasons.
We think our children are our own creation, and we have such plans for them to continue our dreams.
It helps to remember that our children are independent souls that have their own mission to fulfill.
They might fulfill their entire journey in 9 months, or 15 years or just stay a few hours.
Souls are not locked into the age they pass away at. If you lost a baby, when that soul move back into the spirit world they are a fully grown soul.
They have a lot of opportunities to go on experiencing life, just in a different way than what we are.
The Holy Spirit designed us with these emotional bodies that create strong bonds with our children and family.
This is a way to guarantee the survival of the young souls coming into this dimension until they are strong enough to make it on their own.
I know from experience the pain of losing people we love.
A part of us knows that particular soul will never be duplicated and we mourn the physical loss of their presence.
When you have a loss of a child or some one special, ask your angels to help you get a different perspective of that soul and what that souls purpose was here.
You might get an understanding while you are sleeping, maybe when you are driving down the road.
Just trust the Universe will make an effort to help you “get” what was going on.
One of my best friends passed away a few years ago and I was really mad at spirit. She made such an effort to live, eat right and do all the natural holistic things to stay well.
I was in my bathroom crying and really mad at the world and God/Goddess. I got a really crystal clear message that her soul really wanted to go on. The minute I heard that I knew it was true.
The sadness was still there but I wasn’t mad any more.
I acknowledge her souls desire to be back with the Holy Spirit.
There is no rhyme or reason about why some of us stay a long time and some are here for a super short time.
Just know there are things beyond our ability to appreciate and understand and trust the Holy Spirit.
I know some of you are hurting and really devastated by recent deaths in your family. Some maybe not recent and still fresh in your heart.
When you can stop holding on to the pain, then you can have space in your life for things that feel good.
You are not being untrue to their memory by finding joy again.
I am sure they are happy for you on the other side!
Just do your best to look at things from other view points. That can help with the healing process. Be gentle with your self in the meantime.
Bright Blessings and Big Hugs,
(c) July 2013
PS: If you would like to spend time with me and do a personal mediumship session to see how your loved ones are doing on the other side.
The link is at the top of the page.
There is a lot of healing potential and opportunity for growth if you are really motivated.