We Can Survive Painful Challenges
Each week I take a question from clients on Facebook to answer here in this column. This week Darlene writes: My husband was just diagnosed with level 3 cancer. What is your advice to living through devastation ?
I know you feel like the breath has been knocked out of you with this news. It is a turning point in both of your soul journeys.
When you are at a turning point, there are different directions you can go to. Like fear, blame, anger, escape. You can choose trust, faith and perseverance.
You will be offered a lot of advice from well meaning doctors, friends and even strangers. The challenge is to sort out what is best for you and your spouse, what ideas resonate to you. This feeling of resonation is your higher selves way of saying yes to this idea.
Searching Your Soul To Find Answers
Each one of us has a guiding over soul. This higher part of our consciousness has the original blueprint that you signed off on before you came into a physical body.
We call it a soul contract. It has all the big picture details that your soul wants to deal with Karmic-ally. There are also challenges woven in to the journey to test us along the way on our commitment to walking with integrity and pushing our imposed self limitations.
I believe most of us have a predetermined death date as well. For the most part our soul doesn’t divulge all that to our ego personality . It might be hard for ego to stand it.In some cases you might have a few exit opportunities. In that case the ego and soul together can take that exit opportunity and either go on into the light or stick around for a while. That might look like a Near Death Experience, or mysterious healing.
Good Tools That Offer Support
What you are looking for are “difference makers”. My farrier has this saying that I love! He is a good old boy and talks about tools and techniques in the horse world that are great difference makers. These tools are worth the cost to buy. They are worth the effort to learn and make use of.
In this case you are looking for tools that can help you dig down deep into your own core self. The naked soul essence of who you are. This is the part of you that holds a lot of mystery and even magic.
Just like any other tool used to excavate, you may need a few things that can work together. One tool to dig up and identify your weakness. Maybe another tool to help you polish your strengths. Still another to help you examine your karmic contracts with the person who might be checking out.
The tools that I like in this case are personal ceremony, prayer, chanting, meditation, alone time, tarot card for clarity, soul clearing for extra protection and Angelic support, Mediumship for insight, information and connection.
Personal ceremony is a great tool to say what you need to say to the soul passing on. You can honor their life journey and the place they hold in your heart with a ceremony dedicated to them. You can offer prayer for their journey into the light. This is also a good way to ask the Universe for what you need.
Chanting is a great way to connect to spirit from a higher place. This can trigger memory keys and codes that can bring great comfort. When we can get into alignment with our higher self, we can have the benefit of peace and Zen consciousness.
Meditation and alone time offer time to sort things out. It gives your own higher self a chance to stream messages to you that are helpful.
Tarot cards are an amazing tool that can go right to the heart of the matter. Once you can identify the heart of the matter you can sort out your thoughts on it. This perspective phase is crucial in the healing process.
Soul clearing is the tool I use more than any other. To reset your shields and call down angelic guidance and support. This is the best way to back out of your energy field what ever thought forms, or even entities that don’t belong there.
Mediumship is my way of serving as a voice for those who have gone on. Quite often, just one little message can turn the whole healing dynamic around.
Thank you for stopping by today!
With Love & Light
(c) Sept 2017