A lot of my friends have been asking questions on my Facebook page. I take one question a week to answer here on this page:
Question From Terri:
My boyfriend left me for another woman. Even though he was cruel to me. It hurts so bad. I feel ugly and useless. I feel like he took every part of me.
Answer From MarVeena:
It always helps me to stand back and look at things from a big picture.
You may ask your guides and angels to show you what that is in this circumstance.
Then you need to give them a way to show you. Like meditation and prayer.
This is where you can receive impressions from them about the lesson. The best meditation in this circumstance is to breathe in and breathe out. Inhale love, exhale pain and sadness.
There are a lot of life lessons going on here, but a big one is to not let your self worth, self love and deservement be determined by anyone else but you.
We all deserve love in life, you are giving your power away when you let your self feel loved only if someone says you deserve to.
All souls are moving back to the same Reunion with spirit.
When you can get into a state of mind where you feel love, then you can vibrate from that point.
Then you are magnetically attracting to you love from different sources.
Upon your inception into being, upon your birth, was the intention one of despair, one of pain? No, it was a pure act of Love.
So, your being in this world is a representation of God’s Love at all times. No matter if you are down in the dumps or on cloud nine currently, both states are God expressing his Love through you. The pain is just as important as the joy.
Some say it takes on average of 2 years to overcome the heartache of a failed relationship.
There are books that allow people to work their way through the blocks of recovery.
However, what one forgets is that within every moment is the ability to breathe, the first expression of Love announced to the world.
We give out that first big breath in a bellow that shakes everyone’s heart within listening distance. We breathe in and we breathe in Love, we breathe out and we breathe out Love.
We forget that within every moment is the ability to feel and express Love in its greatest and most simplest form. With the breath, there is nothing but life, God’s greatest expression of Love in the Universe.
However, even without the breath, in what we call death, there still exists God’s greatest expression of Love, equal to what we perceive as Life. God promises that life goes on after what we call death here on Earth.
In the state of a romance lost, a person walks toward the unknown in life, toward a potentially greater expression of Love for themselves in this life.
Lessons learned and mistakes made are not to be looked upon as failure, but as a grand achievement of Love.
Without the lessons learned of a passing loved one, or a romance lost to confusion, we would not know a state with which contains the greatest potential to birth Love within ourselves and to allow within others.
In every moment, whether experiencing despair or joy, we find ourselves breathing, the greatest act of Love.
It is our breath that gives us joy, so it is also the same mechanism that brings Love into our hearts when we perceive what we believe is despair.
In reality, despair is only Love calling. In that state, our low state, what we perceive is literally a sponge empty of Love.
There is nothing to do but fill that sponge with Love. And so we breathe and with each breath we bring in Love without even trying.
With every want of peace, we breath in the Love that leads us there.
With every tear follows a breath, which allows ourselves and others to experience more Love.
Whether we cry for someone who still walks this Earth, or we cry for someone passed on, every tear comes with a breath, a wish of Love for ourselves and for others always. Fill yourself in every breath with Love.
Exhale that Love back to those you are no longer with. God gave everyone this simple ability called the breath, and it comes equipped standard with Love.
Take some time to do some ceremony to call back your power from this relationship and call back any soul pieces he took from you. You need all your power and soul to do what you came to do.
(c) Sept 2014