Each week I take a question off my Facebook Wall to answer in this column:
Today: Reta B writes:
I am in love with a man from a different race, he doesn’t want anyone to know we are a couple. I don’t understand what’s going on, can you help please?
In this situation I get a feeling there are concerns that he has on a cell level of other life times where he was involved with a person of different color and that they were ostracized by the community to extreme consequences.
Their children suffered as well.
He holds a lot of fear on this subject and in a way is protecting himself and you from the opinions of the community.
We have such a strong tribal nature that we often don’t understand.
The need to fit in is a part of our survival mechanism. Soul clearing can help a lot in this case, and maybe some hypnosis for him to reclaim parts of his soul and power that he felt he lost in other lifetimes. It really needs to be his idea to take some steps to change this, otherwise he is just not ready for it.
The Holy Spirit created mankind in different colors for reasons beyond our comprehension.
It is said in the Native American path that the white man embodied the mental mastery, the black man embodied the physical mastery, the Native or brown man embodied the mastery with nature and that the Asian or yellow man embodied the mastery of our spirit nature.
The mixed bloods would have a sense of both worlds. I think we can dig a little deeper on this subject in later teachings 🙂
I suggest a lot of dialogue with your own team of Angels and Guides to help you get a sense of direction here. Your Guides and Angels know what are really the important things for you to “get”while you are here and so do his!
You do this through meditation, it doesn’t have to be an extravagant thing. Just sit still in a quiet place. Ask for a connection to your guides, angels and higher self. Then ask them to help you stay in your souls path, how to do that we the people coming and going from your life.
Then be quiet and allow for your team to gently slide some ideas and messages across your mind. You might see them as if they were notes on a chalk board, you might hear them or just “know” them.
Hold a space of grace and love around your friend as he wrestles with his own inner pain. Try not to judge him, just allow 🙂
Sending Bright Blessings!
(c) July 2015