Most people don’t realize that they can direct their soul journey into a more favorable direction. This is a question that came up on my Facebook Page.
Each week I take a question to answer here on this blog. The post she wrote is heavy with pain, fear and frustration.
Jolene B Writes:
I have no clue were my life is going, don’t know which way to go, I feel stuck. I’m on disability, my son has down syndrome, my oldest is epileptic, lost my mom 2 yrs ago coming up, n I feel like I’m stuck,mentally,emotionally,n physically. I wish I had your gifts, I’m told I have them but don’t know how use them or connect to them, I would like to learn to tap into them. I feel things but can’t explain them. Sorry just had write this or some reason.
You are not alone feeling this way Jolene! A lot of my friends and followers on Facebook would like to re-direct their soul journey so that it is more bearable.
Perspective can help you look at things differently, allowing you to adjust your feelings of over-whelm. Take a deep breath and realize that you choose your path, and the cast of major players in this life time. Like your parents and your kids. They choose to participate with you and dream up some “pretend” challenges and life lessons to help all of your souls to grow, mature, deepen and open up to higher levels of love and higher awareness.
All of them had a rough idea of the time they planned to stay here. I realize that with your children especially it is very hard to appreciate the idea that they might not really want to be here on this life time for a long time. We can’t determine that, their higher self already did.
When you can step back and have some objectivity in viewing your mom passing and the children with serious medical needs, being objective helps you to breath a lot easier. That can open some doorways of creativity. There have been millions of souls who have some very challenging things to deal with. They have used the adverse conditions to write books, movies, invent life changing medicine, create art and all kinds of good things have come as a result of their challenge.
I think you can call that “making lemonade out of lemons” 🙂
I think a huge thing with you is to not let your self, think of your self as a victim of life circumstances. To me, this is a huge difference in our out look on life. That effects your vibration, and your vibration and emotional attachment to your situation can either set it up for you to stay stuck in this pattern. Or give you some insight into breaking out of it and re-directing your own soul journey. When you let your mind think you are a victim, life just brings more and more events to drive that idea in.
Use affirmations to help you create a different out look. “For instance; I am enthusiastic about the life opportunities and creativity that I am experiencing”. I always use an affirmation in the now, it is more powerful than saying ” I know opportunities are coming my way”. You can say thank you to your angels and the Archangels for help, this keeps them mindful of you and what is going on with you.
For instance ” Thank you Angels for all of the valuable insight you bring my way! I am grateful” !
I feel that special needs kids are willing on the soul level to participate in this type of a journey for their souls personal reasons and ultimate soul journey. We might think that it could be better or happier if they were able bodied, but there is gold in those illusions of limitations. The gold is the insight they can gather about them self, their connection to Creation and to each other.
This is another great reason to judge not, least ye also be judged. It is hard for us to really get into why someone chooses one soul journey over another more seemingly successful.
In my meditations with the Angelic realm they told me that every soul journey is valuable. Even when that soul feels like a failure. Even if they lived a miserable existence. It has purpose and only the Grand Architect can really appreciate all of the in’s and out’s.
I suggest you do some meditations with each of your family members, living and in spirit. They don’t have to be present with you. Just in your mind ask for a connection to their highest guardian angel from your own highest guardian angel. Ask them to share with you some of the things they really wanted to understand in this life. What are the big life lessons with you. Don’t judge what you think you hear or get. Just allow, when your mind is open to receiving you can get more ideas.
Make this a weekly effort to sit with spirit and connect to your mom, your family living and in spirit. Especially your children. When you quite your mind down, and open your self to receiving impressions from spirit “which is what I do in my mediumship reading” , when you quite your mind , you will get some little nuggets of why they are here with you and what they want to accomplish.
As you begin to heal from the loss of your mom a little more, your energy field will lighten up. Then you will be able to get more messages. It is harder to get messages when you are covered in a layer of grief.
(c) June 2016