Work your personal pieces how ever you can. You can use soul clearing techniques, meditation and many other ideas to help you figure out what your holds up are
Fear patterns are often triggered by traumatic events that activated your survival instincts. It is easier to turn them on, that to turn them off.
In the Angelic Mysteries it is said that the Angels sing birthday blessings over you during your birth month!
The Universe can use that window to stream to you a whole different way of knowing, being and doing that will help you to move forward with your own souls sacred dream.
As troubled souls are working through their personal disappointments here, they might transfer some of that sadness and frustration to us in a dream.