The Darkest Hour Is Just Before Dawn
When we are locked in our darkest hour, the Universe has a way of showing us an amazing revelation of light within the dark.
Each week I take a question on my Facebook wall to answer here in this blog about different spiritual situations.
This week Diane P. wrote~ My husband just passed away, I never dreamed I would lose the love of my life this soon. His illness and death have left me devastated not just emotionally but financially too. He was the joy of my life and we did not get to say good bye. If it were not for our fur babies I would not be able to go on at all. This is truly my darkest hour, I don’t know how I can move on through this!
Just so you know Diane, I have been struck by devastating loss too! It does take a lot of time to wrap our mind around it and push our way through it.
When we are in deep grief, our energy field is like a big wet wool blanket. It is heavy for us to carry and it is a barrier from the spirit world. Effectively keeping out our loved ones spirit from interacting with us.
This is one good reason to try to heal, just knowing that the more you are able to break up that grief energy, the easier it will be for your special loved one to get a word in to you. Maybe a sign or even a direct message.
Give It Up To A Higher Power To Deal With!
It helps to give it up to a higher power, however you see that. For instance, “Universe, thank you for reminding me of my souls original path and purpose”. And “Thank you Holy Spirit for lifting the sadness that is wrapped around me”. Another good affirmation here is: “I am grateful to receive the light and love from your highest source”.
Recognize that you have suffered a wound and need time and some resources to heal this wound in your darkest hour.
Think about creating a healing plan. Think about who can be your partners in this. A best friend, church leader, counseling or someone like me.
You can get a lot of healing accomplished in ceremony, meditation and prayer. So design your life to include a lot of these things.
I highly suggest a minimum of 10 minutes a day meditation, if you can’t focus on that. Just sit with spirit, light a small candle and ask your angels to sit with you and help inspire you with ideas to move through this.
Realize that a lot of people have been dealt horrific blows and have came back stronger than ever. I think ceremony is a great way to “pull your self back together”.
Ceremony Helps Pull Us Through Our Darkest Hour!
My favorite is the sweat lodge ceremony. It is pretty hard to do but very rewarding. I think we all need a way of purging our pain, bad thoughts and even toxins.
The sweat ceremony is one way to do that. There are a lot of ways to create ceremony in your life, I have used a burning bowl ceremony as a way to release pain too. It works really well.
You can create an Angelic ceremony. Just bring a few beautiful Angels into your room, light some incense and burn a few beautiful candles. Call in all of the aspects of creation into your space along with the Angelic Realm. Let them know about your pain, your fears or worries. Ask them for some ideas to go on. Then you must quite your mind to hear their response !
This is a great way to help you push on through the dark hour to the light of dawn. With that comes some revelations of your connection to this person. The significance of it and possibly some reason to help you keep going.
I have a ton of ideas for this on my blog, You Tube Channel and iTunes Podcast. All are free to you!
I think when we give our self up to our original path and purpose we start to get the inspiration of how and why to go on. That act of surrender offers a channel into the truth of our being, where we get the ideas of what to do next.
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(c) Jan 2017