By MarVeena Meek
A good way to make positive changes in your life on all levels is to be more aware of how you use your words. If you are using low-vibrational words, you are not getting the best results in your life.
If you want to make changes and get more positive results. Change the way you use language.
How do you wonder? By using high vibrational words.
Instead of can't, hate, fat, mad, failure, sad, old, sick, vulnerable, and difficult. Try using words like believe, love, opportunity, value, improve, heart, vibrant, vital, and free.
When you get in a situation and feel you have to make a comment, remember to make your comment as if you believe it true now, even if you feel you are still stretching to make that happen. Like " I feel really dumb on the computer" try " I am feeling better all the time about my computer finesse".
Instead of " It sucks to get older" use " I am getting more vibrant every day". Instead of "My kids don't appreciate me" try "I am happy to have a good relationships with my kids".
We have this thing going in our communication that if I get on a pity party that you need to join me and come down to my level . Untrue! You don't need to join, you can observe how they are choosing to express their viewpoint without lowering your own vibration to go their with them.
Just like when you best friend wants to moan and groan about her X-husband, just smile and say that's weird mine is one of my best friends. Or change the subject if it is a sore place for you.
When people get caught in these dramas we call them pain tapes, it is like they are on a loop and keep playing the disappointment over and over.
You can insert a wedge in the loop in you want to, like I just suggested or use something else like " Gee, Sue tell us about something good in your life".
A wedge is like a thought stopper, I use them in hypnosis to stop a bad habit idea and create some room for a new idea or habit to shape up.
When you begin to get this on your mind you can become more aware of the low impact words in your life and change them out for higher value words.
These are just simple choices we make with our words that can make some really positive changes in your results! See my book store on my web site for a really cool book by Ms. Oswald on choosing better words. Let me know your best strategy for higher impact words and how it has helped you!
Have a powerful day!
MarVeena
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Anastasiya Day says
Great post MarVeena! I agree – "A good way to make positive changes in your life on all levels is to be more aware of how you use your words." And in whatever we do – we must think and stay positive 🙂 Thanks for sharing this post with us! Have an amazing day.
Sarah says
Great tips and reminders. I've been watching how I speak to myself about my new adventures- excited replaces overwhelmed, etc!
Andrea Beadle says
I love the idea of putting a wedge in it – particularly how you suggest we interupt someone's pain tape! I will try that one! Thank you
Sharon O'Day says
I start every morning by declaring — out loud and with enthusiasm — how much I love my life, love this, love that, how much goodness there is in every day. And a couple of weeks after I started that — oh, maybe 10 years ago — it resonated. It became automatic and started my day off in overdrive. Words do count!
Lori says
Thanks for the reminder to be positive in our life. It is so important to have positive thoughts and words. Thanks!