soul journey

Anger can build up and cause major chaos, illness and even disease in your body.

Transforming Anger is a step forward toward the healing process!

Learn what the anger really means helps you discover more about your self and your soul mission.

Each week I take a question off of my Facebook Wall to answer here in this column. Below, Darlene writes:

Dear Marveena,

I’m writing this e-mail to you about the passing of my sweet precious son Allen. He passed suddenly and without any warning at the age of 37. My heart spirit and soul are broken into pieces. He had a great life, wife and they were trying to have a baby. I keep asking God why he took him from us. I’ve gotten no reply
I’m very angry and broken. I don’t understand why he took him so young. Why did he give Allen to me just to take him away. A parent is not supposed to bury their child.

I would greatly appreciate any feedback.

Thanks, Deborah

Transforming anger is key for you to move on. Channel that energy in a positive way.

Having a dialog with your son in spirit will be the first step. Ask your Angels to bring him in to a dream for a conversation. You can also connect to him in a meditation or in a mediumship reading.

I realize that it is not the physical validation that you crave. This is a time in your life for you to get some major soul truths and understandings. Let your mind entertain the idea that every soul moves on into another life after the death of this body.

This planet Earth is a wonderful place! Yet it is just one place in the Universe where we can have adventures from a place of innocence. We don’t know our true connection to the Holy Spirit and each other.

When you can adjust your mindset and truly know that the life of the soul goes on, the healing process can move forward.

Another thing that is very helpful to transforming anger to God, your self or anyone else is to know that all of the people in your circle of friends knew you before you all were born and agreed to be a part of your time in this life journey. Your children told your soul before they were born, even before you were born what they planned and the years they planned to stay. They told you the major life lessons they needed your help on, and you told them yours.

I can promise you that God is not mad at you. God didn’t take away your son. A person or animal doesn’t need an excuse like illness or an accident to die. They can be fine and dandy one minute and quietly die on their sleep. A great idea to break is the one where you might think this earth is the best place for life, or the only place for life. It is one of many dimensions where our souls choose all sorts of adventures.

Transforming anger about the loss of your child can help you to be closer to his spirit, then you might be able to “psychically” hear his ideas, or messages that he wants to bring across to you.

I am sure The Holy Spirit wants you to go on living and looking for joy and love in life. Sometimes we have to let go of what we were taught was the right and good thing to plan for in this life journey. Like the pension, two car garage, 3 kids and die of old age. We didn’t come in to this earth plane to lead a cookie cutter life.

If you have a life with no challenges or obstacles, you probably won’t get as much value out of all the interactions.

A lot of us are challenged by the thing that is hardest for us to face or do. Taking some the process of transforming anger is a step in the right direction.

When The Universal Architect is ready to share a message with you, then you will get the message in the form of a dream or some sort of message out of the blue.

I promise you can stomp your foot all day long and demand an answer and it will get you know where.

More often that you would think, people book readings and tell me they are mad at God for taking their world apart. They want to know why it happened to them. Unfortunately the Karmic pieces of business that are playing out are often way out of our ability to understand or appreciate.

We simply can’t wrap our minds into it.

By taking some quite time to meditate and pray you open the doorways of communication to The Holy Spirit. I think of it as a two way connection. When you are praying your are speaking your peace and asking your questions. When you meditate, you are giving The Holy Spirit time to talk. Either directly to you or maybe through the Angelic Realm.

Please don’t make this harder than it is. Anyone can meditate or pray. Sitting with spirit and holding the intention to begin transforming anger thoughts is a powerful start.

You might need some one to guide you through this, like a grief counselor, a hypnotherapist, or spiritual type of healer.

Ask for the help you need, let your Angels arrange the connection!

I know for some of you is sounds so crazy but we can get messages from our loved ones, there is life after death of the body. The soul is what animates the physical body.

When the soul pulls out of the body, the life force goes with it. Usually it takes any where from 7 hours to 3 full days for the soul to come out of a body.

Don’t judge the quality of some ones soul journey by the time in the physical body.

Another thing to look at is the idea our Divine connection, you might think that your child was yours and had no agenda on his own. But all mothers and fathers know from a soul perspective that they are opening the door way for other souls to come into this dimension. They all have their own soul mission and agenda.

If you can back away from the thought of him being yours and here for your purpose, I think it will help a lot.

There is a lot of old stuff that colors your thoughts and emotions that is no longer serving you. Time to begin the process of forgiving, letting go, transforming anger ideas so you can make a strong connection with The Holy Spirit and your sons spirit.

I highly recommend a combination soul clearing/reading to help you process this.

Sending Bright Healing Blessings your way!!

MarVeena (c) June 2016

transforming anger

Most people don’t realize that they can direct their soul journey into a more favorable direction. This is a question that came up on my Facebook Page.

Each week I take a question to answer here on this blog. The post she wrote is heavy with pain, fear and frustration.

Jolene B Writes:

I have no clue were my life is going, don’t know which way to go, I feel stuck. I’m on disability, my son has down syndrome, my oldest is epileptic, lost my mom 2 yrs ago coming up, n I feel like I’m stuck,mentally,emotionally,n physically. I wish I had your gifts, I’m told I have them but don’t know how use them or connect to them, I would like to learn to tap into them. I feel things but can’t explain them. Sorry just had write this or some reason.

You are not alone feeling this way Jolene! A lot of my friends and followers on Facebook would like to re-direct their soul journey so that it is more bearable.

Perspective can help you look at things differently, allowing you to adjust your feelings of over-whelm. Take a deep breath and realize that you choose your path, and the cast of major players in this life time. Like your parents and your kids. They choose to participate with you and dream up some “pretend” challenges and life lessons to help all of your souls to grow, mature, deepen and open up to higher levels of love and higher awareness.

All of them had a rough idea of the time they planned to stay here. I realize that with your children especially it is very hard to appreciate the idea that they might not really want to be here on this life time for a long time. We can’t determine that, their higher self already did.

When you can step back and have some objectivity in viewing your mom passing and the children with serious medical needs, being objective helps you to breath a lot easier. That can open some doorways of creativity. There have been millions of souls who have some very challenging things to deal with. They have used the adverse conditions to write books, movies, invent life changing medicine, create art and all kinds of good things have come as a result of their challenge.

I think you can call that “making lemonade out of lemons” 🙂

I think a huge thing with you is to not let your self, think of your self as a victim of life circumstances. To me, this is a huge difference in our out look on life. That effects your vibration, and your vibration and emotional attachment to your situation can either set it up for you to stay stuck in this pattern. Or give you some insight into breaking out of it and re-directing your own soul journey. When you let your mind think you are a victim, life just brings more and more events to drive that idea in.

Use affirmations to help you create a different out look. “For instance; I am enthusiastic about the life opportunities and creativity that I am experiencing”. I always use an affirmation in the now, it is more powerful than saying ” I know opportunities are coming my way”. You can say thank you to your angels and the Archangels for help, this keeps them mindful of you and what is going on with you.

For instance ” Thank you Angels for all of the valuable insight you bring my way! I am grateful” !

I feel that special needs kids are willing on the soul level to participate in this type of a journey for their souls personal reasons and ultimate soul journey. We might think that it could be better or happier if they were able bodied, but there is gold in those illusions of limitations. The gold is the insight they can gather about them self, their connection to Creation and to each other.

This is another great reason to judge not, least ye also be judged. It is hard for us to really get into why someone chooses one soul journey over another more seemingly successful.

In my meditations with the Angelic realm they told me that every soul journey is valuable. Even when that soul feels like a failure. Even if they lived a miserable existence. It has purpose and only the Grand Architect can really appreciate all of the in’s and out’s.

I suggest you do some meditations with each of your family members, living and in spirit. They don’t have to be present with you. Just in your mind ask for a connection to their highest guardian angel from your own highest guardian angel. Ask them to share with you some of the things they really wanted to understand in this life. What are the big life lessons with you. Don’t judge what you think you hear or get. Just allow, when your mind is open to receiving you can get more ideas.

Make this a weekly effort to sit with spirit and connect to your mom, your family living and in spirit. Especially your children. When you quite your mind down, and open your self to receiving impressions from spirit “which is what I do in my mediumship reading” , when you quite your mind , you will get some little nuggets of why they are here with you and what they want to accomplish.

As you begin to heal from the loss of your mom a little more, your energy field will lighten up. Then you will be able to get more messages. It is harder to get messages when you are covered in a layer of grief.

Bright Blessings!

MarVeena Meek